my father is busy all the time, he always goes out very early and then goes home after very late. he doesn’t have much time to accompany me, my mother tells me that what he does is for the family, so i am considerate and get used to his absence. but recently, i found my father changed. he got more time to stay with me, he got home earlier and then taught me with my homework. i was so surprised and happy, this was the life i wanted all the time. i asked my father what happened, he said he wanted to spend more time with me, he realized it was the most important thing.
people always confuse about the meaning of happiness, they don’t know how to define it. some people think that when one has the successful career or does something that makes contribution to the society is the happiness. it is common that great acts are admired by the public and people are easy to feel the happiness. while in my opinion, happiness is very easy to achieve. when i stay with my family, we have the nice talk and i feel very happy. when i eat the delicious food that is cooked by my mother, i feel moved and happy. happiness is around everywhere, we can feel it if we treat it right.
once i read the story that the little eagles needed to practice flying in the cliff before they could fly. the successful ones could fly and became the strong birds while the failed ones would crash and then died. the mother eagles are brutal to the babies, but this is the price of growing up. the little eagles who fail to fly would not live long in the natural competition. it makes me think of the children, some parents spoil the kids and they don’t realize it will destroy their children. the children need to learn the lessons, so that they can be the tough person. the road of being mature needs the price.
recently, the live show is very popular, especially the show about the father how to get along with their children. the fathers are celebrities and they have the brilliant career. i am impressed by the fathers who are olympic champions, their kids have the strong desire to win. when their fathers lose in the game, the kids will be very sad and can’t accept the result. no one can win all the time, we have to learn to accept the bad result. the kids think their fathers are no.1, so they treat their fathers as the absolutely winners. sometimes the strong desire is not good for the kids to grow up, they should have the positive attitude to the result.